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January 7, 2019

Happy New Year, I hope your Christmas season was filled with fun and warm memories.   

I am so glad you are part of the Safe Haven community; a lot is planned for Safe Haven Center and excited to have you join us this new year!


We look forward...

You are invited to join us for a free webinar:

Safe Haven Model Part 2  

“The Argument Cycle: The way you react when your dragons are raised”

In part 1 we reviewed the Safe Haven Model, and the key ingredients of an emotionally connected Safe Haven marriage....

November 19, 2018

 Hello Safe Haven Community,

“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, 

will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 4:7

I think it’s safe to say that today we all feel pretty stressed out living in this fast paced digital world. 

A r...

Hello Safe Haven Community,

Introducing our

Safe Haven Pre-marital and Young Married Intensives

Couples come for 2 days for a marriage-impacting experience

We are offering a 30% discount because we believe every marriage should have a chance to get off to a good start.


Hello Safe Haven Community,

Sue went over the schedule with the babysitter one more time while her husband, Jake, waited in the car for their date night. “I still can’t believe we are paying her this much,” Jake muttered under his breath. “Well, you could have helped to...

October 8, 2018

Hello Safe Haven Community,

I am constantly surprised by how little couples really talk about what really matters.  Couples all say they wish they could ‘communicate’ better. 

But couples don’t always know how to talk about the deeper heart issues, what really...

September 21, 2018

Binge-watching is a popular trend as 70% of Americans do it and it has become the new video gaming. Binge-watching, also called binge-viewing, is the practice of watching television for longer time spans than usual, usually of a single television show. 

Binge-watching i...

September 15, 2018

Hello Safe Haven Community,

Have you ever tried to share your complaint and got heated, maybe even contemptuous and angry … but you really wanted your spouse to understand how this thing bothers you?  

Then, here is the kicker, your spouse got hurt and offended by t...

September 8, 2018

Difficult:  Do you and your spouse have a difficult life which places stress and strain on the marriage? 

Are you faced with challenges regarding kids, money, work, health, in-laws and other circumstances?

These marriages have faced one thing after another and makin...

August 25, 2018

Hello Safe Haven Community,

“I wish you could understand how you hurt me when you do this or that!”

After sitting with over 700 couples during Safe Haven Marriage Intensives, the one phrase I hear the most is: “I wish my spouse could understand how they hurt me when they...

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